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Wednesday, October 1, 2014

马云 : 有远见的人都会买保险!


http://mp.weixin.qq.com/s?__biz=MzA4NzM1NjExOA%3D%3D&mid=200424474&idx=5&sn=cf0cae5f555a2cb4a2efbaa8331acb85&scene=4#rd

有远见的人都会买保险!

2014-09-22 海之梦 平安综合金融理财中心
马云毫无疑问,是一个有着极大远见的人,他选择的保额高达4000万。
马云的一席话,一针见血反映了保险的意义,千万不要让自己赚的钱最后全成了医疗费。
他说:生了病的人想买保险,不是他认可保险了,是花自己的钱心疼了。所以,没有切肤之痛,不知道买保险的好处。总觉得买保险没有用。你没买保险没出事,那是万幸;没买保险出了事,就是悲剧;买了保险没出事,那是幸福;买了保险出了事,就是庆幸。保险能做到:不出事锦上添花,出了事能雪中送炭。
买保险不能改变生活,而是防止生活被改变!辛辛苦苦几十年,一病回到解放前,全家的几年积蓄都给医院攒的!面对灾难,面对逝去的生命,风险再次提醒保险销售人员存在的价值!
“很多人一生输就输在对新生事物的看法上:
第一,看不见;第二,看不起;第三,看不懂;第四,来不及。”
马云说:保险是后路,在春风得意时布好局,才能四面楚歌时有条路。有钱时,钱不值钱。没钱时,人不值钱。要想让人永远值钱,就必须用您现在有能力的时候,把赚到的钱拿出一部分来规划好不确定的将来。
您放在银行的钱和放在保险公司的钱都是您的钱,不同的是:银行肥在现在,瘦在未来;保险规划將赢在未来!让现在有钱的您,变成未来值钱的您,保险恰能做到这一点。提早规划,提早安心。做一个没有后顾之忧的人,才能在事业上真正做到大展拳脚。
(感言)有时候真的想说:你的全民医保,难道比央视第一主播罗京的保障还高?罗京因为高额的医疗费,放弃了让儿子美国留学的打算;
有时候也想说: 你经济条件是好,但你比影星付彪更有钱?付彪走的时候,却给老婆孩子留下的巨额的债务; 亏得一些生前好友帮助才度过难关,试问谁想家人孩子成为别人的负担!
有时候还想说: 你们家豪车,豪宅都是按揭买的,欠下银行几十万甚至上百万,你真的没有压力吗?洛桑的父母,为什么从北京豪华的别墅搬回了农村老家?是因为他们失去了会挣钱的儿子。
你的企业搞这么大,经营的这么好,这都是您的能力和价值的体显,如果您要出现任何风险了,想过企业怎么办?还会经营的这么好吗?您的家人能经营的像你这样赚钱吗?所以钱是您赚的,再没赚到钱之前先得把您自己的生命价值上个保险,这样有没有风险您的人生都不会输在意外、等任何风险上;
朋友们,我知道你们都把未来憧憬的很好,但人生有两件事情不能预测的,一个是意外的突然到来,一个是大病的不幸发生。另外,人从生下来那一刻,就在一步步走向死亡,不外乎就是两个偶然和一个必然,偶然就是意外和疾病,必然就是会老去。
还有,很多人买保险就问,现在交多少钱,到老领多少钱,试问一下,60岁以前的事情你都没有准备好,医疗你都没有准备好,还谈什么养老?难道你真的认为,温饱比高额的医疗费还难解决吗?唉!
有时候真的想说:朋友们!你,有点儿家庭责任感可以吗?没有人因为买保险而倾家荡产,但有没买保险因为高额医疗费倾家荡产的人,的确有很多。
小编有话说:保险你可以不买,但你一定不要拒绝了解保险,朋友,你真的了解保险在人的一生起到一个什么作用吗?
你不理财,财不理你!上(www.shuchanghai.com)理财网,了解最新理财资讯,守住你的血汗钱,保过去!留未来!

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Movie Reivews: The legend of Hercules / Jack Ryan: the shadow recruit


Dearie just...somehow..."coerced" me into finishing 2 youtube videos featuring a couple of baby pandas playing for as long as 30minutes. No...actually it was like less than 10minutes but it actually felt that long. I was simply dumbstruck. He's usually not like that; he's more into funny talk shows like those by Kumar, David Letterman, Ellen Degeneres or some crappy comedians with weird slangs or else awesome vocals or magic shows in America's got talent. I think he's developing paternal instinct. I almost fainted when he went on to watch another video about some tiger chasing around a dog like the best of friends etc. Hmm..........

Anyway, these movie reviews are late because I got pretty sick the last few weeks. Currently on my 3rd course of antibiotics for my sorethroat and finally I'm able to speak like a female. And did I mention I was/am having this inhumane diet consisting of beehoon soup, fish slice soup, udon soup, whatever-soup etc without any fried, oily or spicy food for like a MONTH every since my operation of the removal of my gallbladder?! OMG it's god's love that I didnt go crazy! Anyway I couldnt bear it any longer just now and I ate Korean Char-grilled Chicken at BBQ Chicken and it was so nice! *wipes tears with hanky*



The chicken was marinated well and I love the fragrance of the spices and how tender the meat was. Although it was accompanied with no sauce, it was juicy without being dry nor oily. Thumbs up! However, the 2 sides I chose were disappointing. The mash wasnt smooth and were very dry without any sauce(I did asked but they said they dont serve any sauce for mash potato. *Dumb struck*) And the calamari wasnt fried well because it was SOAKING with oil and had a very soggy exterior. It was easy to bite though, not rubbery. The salad comes with thousand island sauce and was fine.

Yeah as expected I had a bad diarrhoea and slight tummy pain when I reached home. =( Sigh...oh well........but I'm fine after some rest.



Some movie reviews which came late.



Movie: Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit
Ratings: 7/10
Comments: Started off slowly........got better towards the end. But really, I was expecting more intrigue, actions, thrills as per fitting a undercover movie? You know we Asians have watched so many undercover movies produced by HK and our standards were set pretty darn high........so yep.....a let down if you compare with HK undercover movies.




Movie: The Legend of Hercules
Ratings: 7/10
Comments: We actually didnt intend to watch this movie after watching the trailer....(I thought this Hercules wasnt as aesthetically pleasing as Kevin Sorbo, the Hercules in my childhood dreams, as in the television series, Hercules the legendary journey  :P I only watched a few episodes though, but they were wonderful and funny with many beauties heh). BUT we did catch the movie anyway because of some wonderful reviews at GV.com, saying that there wasnt a boring moment. And yes, I can kind of conclude there werent much of a moment where you'll fall asleep. That's because there were too many incredulous moments which knitted my eyebrows as the whole story was in complete opposite as what was being passed down in well...historical myths. 

And when a movie is titled, "The Legend of Hercules", naturally, you'll expect they make it right! Firstly, I was stunned by a pitiful and benevolent-looking Hera.............Can you even imagine Hera being given an image like a Chinese Guan Yin kind of god? Hell no, Hera was rumoured to be a green-eyed monster who constantly got jealous over his husband, Zeus's affairs. And it's almost her wish to kill all his flings, including his off-springs, ESPECIALLY Hercules because he was being born so strong and smart as well; He wasnt as giddily love-sick as being portrayed in the movie and he showed his wit when he cleaned the Augean stables in just 1 day(by breaking the dam of a river or something, dont quite remember), which was a task he was set to do among the 12 he was ordered. That's why I almost fell off my chair when Hera said she will benevolently grant Alcmene a privilege to sire a son of Zeus, the King of gods, to change the fate of kingdom.

WAHAHAHAHAHA!! That's like the joke of the year!! Hera allowing her hubby to bed another woman??? It doesnt even sound logical. But the funny thing is, I seems to be the only one feeling incredulous in my seat. Apparently not many people read Greek mythology. Zzzzzzz. And there comes the amusing part where the invisible Zeus somehow consummated with Alcmene (Mo ming qi miao) and dah-danggggg, Hercules was born. And it was all very.......ridiculous and amusing. The part where Hera spoke gently and softly to Hercules warning him of the dangers.... Lol .....it's more convincing when it would be like...ahh...while she was talking to Hercules, she whipped up her dagger to stab him in the heart. Yup that's right, Hera hates Hercules that much because he's the strongest man(ok, like half-man, a demi-god to be exact) to be born! He can strangle serpents to death when he was a baby and there in the show he was depicted to be a mere mortal with no amazing strength(before he called out to Zeus) And the part about the Nemean Lion was added to the script in poor taste....when we know it's the first of the 12 tasks which Hercules was being set out to accomplish....

All in all, I really never expect such a ...out turn of the plot...I guess usually people prefer plots as close as to the originals or what has been passed down. It's ok to edit here and there but it's just...ridiculous when the plot was written in a complete and absurd version. 

Alright, if you're not so much into the originality of the myth...then well it's actions and digital effects werent too bad. 

Why? It would be 10 times more interesting to produce a movie on how Hercules cleared his 12 labours!


Sunday, December 1, 2013

Spare a thought for other people, despite you living comfortably


http://therealsingapore.com/content/dear-trs-i-sacked-6-pinoy-nationals-and-1-indian-national-friday

DEAR TRS, I SACKED 6 PINOY NATIONALS AND 1 INDIAN NATIONAL ON FRIDAY

HRicky HRicky28@hotmail.com via therealsingapore.com 
to TRS
 
Nov 23
(1 day ago)
 
Dear The Real Singapore,
Guys, on friday i sacked 6 pinoy nationals and 1 indian national at the MNC i work for fraud basically.
One of the pinoy that was sacked was a HR personnel (Pinoy), another was an IT personnel (Indian National).
What happened was that these two clowns had colluded in hiring their own nationals (mainly pinoys) in the company. 
Basically we had put up Job adverts looking for some people, now when the people sent the email, anyone that was singaporean was deleted, they kept only the foreigners (pinoys.)
The IT personnel was basically bribed by the Pinoy to delete the log files on our SMTP server as well, making it seem that no singaporeans applied for the job.
What the IT personnel does not know, i keep another log file separately (disguissed as a system file) sent to another server.
When i saw the log files did not match the IT personnel gave some rubbish story only after i threatened to report him to the police, he told me the story.
Basically the Pinoy hr had people from the phillipines apply for any openings in the MNC i work and deleted any resumes that were singaporeans and he managed to get 5 pinoys past me.
They work on the idea that he gives the job their first salary belongs to the Pinoy HR. The Pinoy HR then gives 20% of that to the indian national to do cleanup on the server to clear traces.
The HR and IT guy were sacked without notice on Friday. The 5 pinoys that got in were also sacked. These were not small jobs but jobs that payed more than 6K/mth. Purpose i am making this post is so that you guys can be aware of the fraud going on in certain companies and games that foreigners are playing on singaporeans.
Also for employers, you should also have a copy of a log file only you have access to, this will help when the HR lies about no singaporean applied for the jobs
Sorry for the wall of text

Sincerely,
Rick

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A friend of mine was retrenched for her last job when her company kept a PRC employee with a lower pay who worked shorter than her....now she might be facing the same thing again in her current job. We are really worrying for her plight and outcome....really starting to feel grievance towards PAP supporters... Please kindly see what's happening to other less fortunate people around you despite your unaffected comfortable lives. I might be self-employed, living fine, no kids to worry for their future skyhigh-priced HDB flats but please see long term for the our country....Sg will be wiped out of locals in no time...
It's NOT that I have something against some of these hardworking foreigners who worked hard for themselves and their families. I have the utmost respect for these people, especially for our lovely neighbors, Malaysians, handy helpers such as the Filipino maids and such. BUT, the number for these FT is too LARGE that it affect the lives of local true blue Singaporeans. Of course it's natural that I look out for our own fellow people MORE than foreigners, so, SORRY that if you find me selfish because everyone is. Afraid of competition? Racism? Whatever you call it. 
I just wish I have my once lovely hometown back and not this which is over crowded with foreigners and made myself feel outnumbered and outcast-ed. It's my home! I'm just quite sure if this goes on...I will no longer feel it's home.

Share if you are with me.




Tuesday, October 15, 2013

制服12星座的方式


This is sOooOoooO funny!!!! But for some...somewhat true!! LOL!!!

制服12星座的方式
制服白羊座的方法:跟他做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛 做愛

制服金牛座的方法:就是聽他的,就算他的理論有誤差,也別去反駁。回答:恩,就好。反駁你就死,默默地把事實擺在眼前就是王道。


制服雙子座的方法:有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 有錢 還是有錢

制服巨蟹座的方辦法:不管男女都是叨逼叨叨逼叨怨氣體,還好大部分賢良淑德,只要你不是浪子,聽得下抱怨就搞定,PS:請勿接觸被傷多次的巨蟹!

制服獅子座的方方法:讚他,讚他,讚他,虐他,讚他,讚他,讚他,使勁虐他,再繼續讚,虐是精神虐。

制服處女座的方法:打他 打他 打他 打他 打他 罵他 罵他 罵他 罵他 罵他,打他罵他 打他罵他 打他罵他 打他罵他 打他罵他,就是別對他好。

制服天秤座的方法:搞曖昧,搞曖昧,搞曖昧,搞曖昧,搞曖昧,搞曖昧,搞曖昧,打太極,打太極,打太極,打太極,做該做的事,說該說的話,就是別對他說「我愛你」。

制服天蠍座的方法:不要理他。

制服射手座的方法:給他自由,跟他玩 跟他玩 跟他玩 跟他玩 跟他玩 跟他玩,越不管他越愛你。

制服摩羯座的方法:摩羯最沒情趣,你能照顧好他,照顧好他家人,他就是你的。

制服水瓶座的方法:讓他猜不透,看不透,摸不透 你就贏了。

制服雙魚座的方法:他就是公主,你得陪她演,時不時客串瓊瑤劇,你演不下去你就輸。

Saturday, September 21, 2013

Angelina Jolie reportedly left with 3 years to live


Oh well....I hope this isnt true.

Looking at the pictures of Angelina Jolie at http://www.lollipop.sg/content/angelina-jolie-reportedly-left-3-years-live.........the chinese proverb 天妒红颜 came into my mind; which actually means god is jealous of your beauty and thus the saying....that usually beauties doesnt have a easy life. Anyway, it calls to mind an entry which I've previously blogged, http://littlechillipadi89.blogspot.sg/2013/06/after-all-ive-got-most-beautiful-woman.html. Basically to sum up, I merely meant if that so-called speech is supposedly made by Brad, it "sounds" and "seems" to me that he's more interested in Angelina's looks and is greatly proud to have the honor of sleeping next to technically, his opinion of the most beautiful woman on earth THAN loving the actual woman himself. The entry received alot of backlash mainly because I complimented Angelina on her humanitarian work(scroll down) and thought she deserves someone who truly loves her for her; loves her for who she is, and not love her for being Angelina Jolie. Some ladies got very uptight because they felt she was a home wrecker and literally snatched 2 husbands, one said.

I'm truly not a fan of her so I'm not into her tabloids and romance history; I'm greatly ignorant on all those and the only "famous" one is of course, yes, she got's Jenny's(Jennifer Anniston) hubby, Brad Pitt. And looking at her pictures, and I wonder, truly....is there any man she cant have? If she really really want. With her beauty, I think she can do more than that; that is, having a few men instead of just 1 man. I have to admit I really dont know her history well but well...looking at her info in wiki......and fine....some pictures.....can you not love this women already who adopt so many kids with love and no racism at all. It's apparent that the kids are happy and all this can only be possible of love because I dont think the kids are old enough to "act happy" infront of a camera. And if a woman need to come up with this whole facade of a "charitable and loving mother".......just think about it.......how much work, time and effort she need to take? Or does she even need this? Guys take 1 look at her and falls in love. Not to mention she's filthy rich.

Just take a minute to imagine, if you have this kind of Hollywood star look.......and basically men fall at your feet....and one day, Brad Pitt falls at yours. And you fell at his too. But he's married. What will you do? Remember you're such a beauty who can get a guy at a snap of fingers, but the only guy you love is a married men, would you sacrifice your integrity and reputation in the name of love?

In life, things are so hard to say but yet promises are so easily given. Never say never. Remember the times where we all do stupid things in the name of love. Why the saying "Love is selfish"? Because it really is. I, one who is proud that I've never been a 3rd party in a relationship or 2-time anyone all my life, cant guarantee that my hubby will be the last man I love. It's not that I dont love him enough; I love him so much, so much more than he love me. However it's just that I feel nothing is ever predictable in life. If ever, Angelina Jolie gets to know my hubby, and somehow they fell in love, what can I do? 

I will only say, "That's too bad....move on...."...oh and maybe one more line, "Tough luck!(because it's Angelina Jolie). Lol.

I asked dearie, "Dear, if one day Angelina Jolie says she wants to be with you, you'll probably dump me for her right?"

He gave me a super complete 360degrees roll-eyes-look which indicated his blatant amusement and my ingenuity for inventing such a ridiculous predicament and said, "That will NEVER happen. So you dont have to worry."

It's not exactly the "model answer" which I wanted, which is, "No honey...I will never dump you for anyone else, not even Angelina Jolie." Which is like, so cheesy, I know. Lol. Of course he did follow up with words around that meaning, weakly, in a not very convincing sort of way. =P

But you see, we're all human beings...not saints...it's really hard to say what will happen and guarantee what you will do and what you will not do. Because life itself is already a gamble.

Months ago, I heard about an impending bridegroom having feelings with a female friend, who also has feelings for him. Despite having feelings, they are prim and proper, if you get what I mean, only meeting for meals. Having to do the "RIGHT" thing, the guy continued with the engagement, my friend got heartbroken and said they shouldnt meet anymore now that he is married. 

Yes, the "Right" thing, but is it really right?

Can your heart really follow the direction of being "right"?

Initially I asked my friend to go for it and convince the guy to break off his engagement to be together with her, since the guy claims he loves her and not his wife-to-be. On one hand, my friend is not willing as she feels this is "WRONG" and it's "UNFAIR" to the wife-to-be. But then I told her, if he really loves you while he is with her, isnt it more unfair to her? His soul isnt even faithful anymore."

Days later, my friend updated me with what he told her. 

"Something is missing..." he said

Immediately red bells rang in my head and I warned my friend that he might not be in love with her like what he claimed. Because oh manz, I hear this all the time. Attached men finding excuses to cheat will always repeat this line. Be careful if you hear this. Because this literally means, "Actually I'm great with my wife, but I just dont mind an extra."

As expected, he continued the engagement but yet still wish to remain status-quo with my friend; he knows damn well this is torturous to my friend(liking someone but yet suppressing the feelings). To which, I condemned him to the depths of hell. Because I can now 100% accurately conclude he's only in love with himself and wants the best of both world. 

So you see, not only life changes all the time, people changes all the time too. Before you get yourself so emotionally affected by someone, make sure he's worth it. Because not only love is selfish and blind, love is greedy too. 

Friday, September 13, 2013

Ya, like why? 也许,我们真的不适合。



Do you love your GF enough to let her do this?
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(P/S After dearie saw my entry, he highlighted me on 1 error: "It should be, I love you far too much to let you do this for me. You know, it's like, I love you too much to hurt your feelings instead of I love you too much to NOT hurt your feelings. No need that word "NOT"." I was like, "Eh ya hor". But thankfully he said, "But I get your meaning lah, that's why I said that's what I thought too." Lol. Kekeke!)


From the way he answered and the way I know him, he meant it truly. =)
He's just far too blunt to say things which he dont mean it. You know, saggi leh~
I simply love our style of communication; we're just so frank, so open with each other. No hard feelings bottled up, anything we just put it on the table(and serve). Lol. =P
Everyday, I feel so blessed to have him in my life. =)
Have you told your loved ones that you love them today? =)



Recently a friend just told me the girl she likes just broke up with her boyfriend. 
And I was saying, 

"Ai seh! Your chance come liao. Faster go woo!!" 

My friend: "Nahzz....I find it hard to communicate with her. Little things can get so angry and throw tantrum. Joking only mah. Why so sensitive? If as friends, communication already so difficult, how to become couple?"

Me: "But you like her alot right??"

My friend: "Like is one thing....everytime quarrel very sian one...I really buay tahan liao...you cant expect after we got together liao, then I everytime talk very carefully....or dont talk at all.....like this together for what? "

Me: "Ya true............."

My friend: "Everytime I got to stoop so low to apologise when I dont even feel I'm in the wrong....again and again, again and again. I'm really, really tired.........."


I remembered a friend told me this before, when I unknowingly made a friend angry over some insensitive remark;

"From now on, you can only talk less or dont talk at all, lest you unknowingly say wrong things and made her angry again....but like this, you also very miserable because always got to suppress your feelings...cannot express freely...like this also difficult la..."

Ya lo.......then might as well I cut down on meeting her......and even if I meet her whether in groups etc, I cant talk to her or mention anything in regards to her....And I thought....."Huh...if like this, might as well I dont meet, or dont join the gathering at all. [=.=]'''' And...if this continues....as much as I want to keep her as a friend, I think it's also difficult.....Sigh......

I can also say....我们不适合(做朋友)。Machaim BGR like that...haha...
But when you think about it, it's very similar and it's true.
I've never think that when a guy and girl cannot be together as a couple, it means neither party is at fault or not good enough etc. Sometimes it's just that they're not suited...personality/background etc etc. Same thing with friends. My friends either love me or hate me, I realized! Too bad she "hates" me...for now.... As much as I love her, and I also think she wanna (try to) accept me(else she wouldnt endure me for so long...she said the "grievances" were accumulative. =( ......

But I guess................SIGH.............it's really tough......

Actually I also believe there are some 小人(mean people) around who always like to 煽风点火(sow discord).......Although I'm just so disappointed at the turnout....I can only tell myself that it's probably my downfall that I fail to realize, to sense her unhappiness with me for all my insensitive remarks and nonsense all this while. Stupid.....

Because both of us has lost a friend who truly care for one another; (I care for her and I believe she also care for me......), now I truly wish she has friends who truly care for her like I do. Because I know I wont be around to keep a lookout for her anymore...if she got drunk or tipsy or care for her anymore.

Frankly speaking, 小人 are all around, sometimes it's difficult to differentiate. I think many people have eyes to see I truly care for her, but if that 小人 can 加盐加醋 in a very natural way to convince her further I'm deliberately "aiming" her, to encourage her to lose me as a friend, frankly speaking...that friend also cant be very kind...

It's like....if you see your friend quarrel with her spouse over some insensitive remarks or in short, a very small issue but YOU KNOW that actually they love each other and care for each other, wouldnt you help by saying, 

"Aiya....maybe he dont mean it one. I'm sure he dont mean it in the negative way....why should he? You 2 had been through so much together...10+ years together...dont because of this small thing then ruin the relationship. You forgot how he was there for you when you need him?"

OR, would you say,
"Oh manz, he's damn insensitive and rude and offensive lor. I feel he's always targeting you and purposely want to make you paiseh one. Dont forgive him. Aiya, this kinda husband, dont want also nevermind. Find another one. Bla bla bla"

Of course you will say things like the former(1st one) right and not the ones in red right??!!! 正所谓,劝合不劝离。Moreover, it's reallllllyyyy not a big issue. Of course unless stuff like...IF I seduce my friend's hubby la, or sow discord between her and friends la, or bad mouth her reputation behind her la or used her whenever I need her but ignore her when I dont need her, THEN OF COURSE I deserve everything. BUT I DID NOT!

A friend who encourages you to do a wrong thing even though it sounds soothing to your ears AT THAT MOMENT(yes you got no fault at all, it's all your hubby's fault, he's in the wrong, go get a divorce) MAY NOT have your best interests at heart. 

Sometimes, a friend who says the un-soothing words may just be the one who stops you from doing the wrong thing or decision;

"You sure your hubby meant it in the negative way? Or is it because you're too sensitive? Maybe he's just joking and didnt know you'll get offended. Anyway, aiya...it's also not a very big thing mah.....I'm sure he treasure the relationship and not purposely make you angry one."

I really felt soOoooOoo.............[?????????] sometimes.

Her exact words to me in message, "I think you always like to target me, also got people also think this way. Why you like to shoot me, you not happy with me or what. Why you always like to drag me in and shoot me?"

YA!! I was also thinking, YA WHYYYYYY??? WHY I WANT TO SHOOT YOU??? *Faints*

Kill people also need to have motive right?? What motive I have??

I introduced her to this group of friends, from this group of friends, she also know more friends. Everytime we got gathering, I ask her along. Through time, she know my friends better, they also add her to group chats and ask her along too. And I'm totally okay with it. NEVER once, that I join but didnt ask her. I ask her to join EVERY SINGLE TIME. But after that we realized she cant come out on weekdays so we stopped asking her on weekdays; but weekends we continue to jio her. Even when I'm meeting 1 or 2 guy or girl friends(friends she know) instead of 1 big group, I also jio her. I'm that close with her, I simply love to bring her along with me whoever I meet(so long so she's comfortable). I introduce her to my circle of friends. She ask me for the numbers of my girlfriends or guyfriends, I also give her. She asks them out without asking me along, I'm also fine. Sometimes we do meet up alone too. We know each other for more than 10years, she meant so much to me.

Now she say I like to shoot her, and target her? I was like why???

Do we like the same guy and thus fighting for attention? Hell no. We're both happily married and whole world knows it thanks to FB. Are we in the same trade and we fight for some promotion etc? No, we're not in the same trade and both very loved by our generous hubby so we dont have money issue. Is she closer to this group of friends than me? Some yes some no. Friends whom I know for a much longer time than her naturally will still be closer with me, that's just the usual simple logic. But let's just say, we got our own closer friends, like A friend/B friend/C friend are closer to her while all the others are closer to me. I dont see any issue here unless she feel it is(which I also dont think she feel so)

You may wonder; Is she prettier than me?

OF COURSE a 100% YES!!!

But the thing is, eh please lor, TONS of people are prettier than me. 

Gra is prettier than me.
Suan is prettier than me.
Huey is prettier than me.
Lin is prettier than me.
Jes is prettier than me.
Shand is prettier than me.
Ser is prettier than me.
Lina is prettier than me.
Angi is prettier than me.
Von is prettier than me.
Phy is prettier than me.
Chris is prettier than me
Jov is prettier than me.
Ama is prettier than me.
PS is prettier than me.
Cel is prettier than me.
Kat is prettier than me.
Rain is prettier than me.

(For awhile, I almost want to put their pics down here, but I thought not very nice. Lol...machiam haolian I got pretty friends like that. =P)

Many many more, sorry due to time constraint, cannot put all the names down. PLEASE dont misunderstand I feel I'm prettier than you just because I didnt put your name!!! I dont mean that!!! Now I'm so f*cking paranoid that everything I blog or say or message must explain veryyyyyy clearly or put a disclaimer. *tired*

SOOOOOOO many girlfriends prettier than me!


So every pretty girl I go and target and shoot? 
Then I very busy lor. 
Then I dont have girlfriends liao lor. 

But tell you, all these PRETTY girlfriends are my GOOD and BEST friends! If you're in my FB then you'll know most of my girlfriends are so pretty and I'm equally close to them, thanks so much that they dont mind a simple plain Jane like me. *feeling blessed again*

Really...........Why would I want to target you and shoot you???

You're one of my longest friend and one of the very best whom I hold dear. I remember very clearly who stood by me when I'm at my lowest and you're one of them. Why would I purposely hurt someone who care for me? I'm not dumb! Good friends are just so hard to come by. Most of them only come to you after they broke up or when they need you but simply MIA when they're happy with their lives again. I'm also used to it. It's hard to get a real friend these days and I always treasure them very much. There's almost no reason on earth that I will ever give you up as a friend, unless you choose to give me up first or unless I've tried anything to keep the friendship but it just doesnt work.


I suppose she's tired....

But actually I am too...


Have a great week guys............

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Close-minded people are usually negative


If you are dealing with closed minded people, it may help you to understand - They do not hear. They will not listen. You cannot change them. They will not follow your logic. They believe what they want to believe.
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Saw this on my friend's FB and I agree with both hands! 

They do not hear. 
They will not listen. 
They will not change. 
They will not follow your logic. 
They believe what they want to believe.

And I may add; Close-minded people are (usually)always NEGATIVE

They take alot of things personally
They take in everything from a NEGATIVE point of view, even though you dont mean anything negative.
They will NEVER think they're at fault ; the fault always lies on others
They never reflect on themselves
They believe if you do not agree with them, then you're against them



If you have such friends, then it's best to stay away from them if your mindset is not strong or your personality get swayed easily.
Because the more you mix with them, the more close-minded and negative you will become.
Eventually, you'll become just like them without noticing it.

I've nothing against them. Nothing's wrong with being close-minded or slightly more pessimistic because everyone's different and everyone's unique. For example, some people are less generous(you may call it stingy) while some people are more generous. Some people might be more reserved while some are friendly. I merely feel different environments make us the way we are(since young). And it's your mindset and the people you meet in later stages of your life which/who may change you. So I have nothing against (almost) any different types of personalities. I often try to see the goodness in different individuals. For example, I have few boastful friends(which some people buay tahan them, lol) but actually, they're pretty generous. =) Another example, I also have very blunt friends who says anything which comes to mind but I'm so grateful they're not hypocritical like some friends I have. They're so truthful. =)


So you see, nobody's perfect. Neither me.

HOWEVER, I simply feel it's very tiring to keep conversations with such close-minded and negative friends, without coming across as.....insensitive and blunt...offensive and god knows how many more negative traits they think of me, just because simply, anything you say, they will think in the negative direction. They feel I've have something against them, personally, OR I'm deliberately "shooting" them. How weird. Why would I?? 

Sometimes I repeat the same things I said, which somehow made a friend unhappy, TO dearie, "So if I say this to you, will you be angry?". I repeated in the same tone and even gave "background info" of the friend(so that dearie will understand the context which I said previously). Sometimes it might be a phone message.

Dearie said, "Huh, what's there to angry about? You mean, you said/text this and your friend got angry?"

Me: "Ya lo"

Of course.......I know I know....different people is different.......but really...I didnt expect it.

Well, I am frank, yeah, but I'll NEVER say anything IF I know VERY WELL that will make you unhappy or upset. Why would I purposely make you unhappy if you are my friend? It's never my motto to.....like.....put you down or get revenge that sorta thing. I'm a person who likes peace.

Sometimes I told dearie about some scenarios regarding a friend, 

Dearie: Oh....you have the right to XXXX what........if she do all this to purposely dont let you XXXX(without you knowing) then you just purposely go XXXX la. Piss her off. Hahahaha!!

Me: Duhz...............why would I want to piss her off? If she not happy I XXXX then I will act as if I dont know everything......and dont XXXX lor..............

Simple as that. I will just avoid....making people unhappy, sometimes at my own expanse. Most of the time, it's not as if I dont know what's happening. I merely act as if I dont know, just so people are happy. I also dont need people to know or appreciate.......I believe sometimes...caring for a person.....you dont really need to let him/her know all the time. 他/她 开心就好了。

Although maybe sometimes I still do(make people unhappy)....they're really unintentional. 

But back to the topic......why I feel it's TIRING to keep conversations or very close friendships with such friends is because I'm SUCH a frank person; I say things on my mind and sometimes I say it out faster than I can correct it.

And I dont say things which I dont mean it. Most of the times I gave compliments, even to strangers(scares them almost all the time) when I'm in a super good mood or has an inquisitive question. For example, "Hey(stranger), your perm very nice! Where you perm it huh?" Maybe because I'm in sales so I'm not afraid of approaching strangers.

And of course I'm NOT a klutz to say negative stuff bluntly....like, "Hey you gain alot of weight leh".......UNLESS that person say it HIMSELF/HERSELF FIRST. For example, "Wah lau......I gained so much weight lately lor........". Then the frank me will......"Haha ya...you do look like you gained abit huh.....aiya then cut down on supper la". Things like that~ I definitely wont say "No lah you didnt gain weight at all." UNLESS he/she really look like he/she didnt gain any weight.

Anyway,

我始终相信缘分。。缘浅了,淡了。。也就尽了。
凡事也无须太强求,因为我相信老天的安排。。当他安排一个人离开你,其实就已
经安排另一个人进入你的生命。=) 凡事皆注定。Everything happens for a reason. =)


All in all, I'm very glad dearie and me are on the same wavelength....although he said and I admit, I'm slightly more petty than him la. But I girl mah...naturally will be slightly more petty. Actually hor, I'm much more broad-minded than TONS of guys already...just that my man is just...amazingly good-tempered and broadminded with a good sense of humor; he hardly gets angry about anything. Zzzz [=.=]''''''''''''''''

Last night........we were at home and I was just standing close infront of him without tiptoeing and looking up at him in (fake)awe....with "innocent" eyes and smiling...... And he, for like the 1st time in a century, said to me, "Ahhh.........my sweet sweet wife...." then he smiled.

I was so shocked, "Wah.......you seldom call me like that one leh"
Dearie: Got lah. =)
Me: NoooOoo, you usually say 你这个贱人(slut)!!~ bla bla bla
Dearie: Wahahahahaha!!
Me: ZzzZzzz

Sometimes when he's in a siao-ding-dong mood, then he will jokkingly call me "贱人(slut)".
The funny thing is, I will still answer him, "What lah"
I'm also very "steady" right. =P 

[=.=]''''''' My friends were appalled that he called me such, aiya but I know he's jokking mah and he only said it at home. Sometimes I call him the same too. Wahahahaha.

We're so weird right~ 

Monday, September 9, 2013

Ah Ba Ah Ba Ah ba - Jackie VS Kong Hee


Wahahaha!








He still can have 23 likes??? *faints* No wonder they say stupidity has no cure. Zzz



Friday, September 6, 2013

Next time learn how to check IC first la.............stupid


14 men charged with commercial sex with 17-year-old girl
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Fourteen men have been charged in court with having commercial sex with a 17-year-old girl. 

Ten of them have indicated today that they would plead guilty, while one has claimed trial.
The men, aged between 22 and 75 years old, allegedly paid the girl between $40 and $150 for sexual services at budget hotels and a lodging house in Geylang between May 18 and 31 this year.

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Omg!! This is just sooOoO gross. The average age of these uncles is 55.  55year old uncle with 17year old girl....is sooOoOo...........errr................
Seriously, I'm really super open-minded. I have nothing against prostitutes and nothing against single guys with "such needs"(provided not my guy frens. =P) BUT for such a huge age gap.........dont they simply feel obscene?? It's like f**king their own daughters or granddaughters. And those girls....gambatte......you'll have a "bright future" if you can "bare" "hardship" at such a tender age. 


And I exclaimed, " Woah!! For $40 to $150 you can f*** a 17year old sweetie?! So cheap!! Dear, you can afford 10 times!!

Dearie: 哪里 

Me: *Turn and stare at him tight-lipped*

Dearie: Hahahaha just kidding just kidding!